Praise be to Allah.
Allah created both women and men and developed in all of them attraction to the other as an element of their nature, which no-one can reject. Islam will pay awareness of that and regulates the connection between your two, which can be limited to marriage; Islam forbids some other kind of relationship which will be unsatisfactory to seem human instinct and appropriate reasoning. Girl just isn't a cheap item for whoever would like to have his method together with her; instead she actually is respected and may be for starters guy to deal with her, devote to her and present her her legal rights. The best way to just take a female as a wife is through seeing her first, then asking her guardian on her behalf hand, then providing some wealth become a dowry on her. All that ensures that Islam regards girl as a respectable being, not at all something this is certainly effortlessly obtained, to make certain that she's going to never be addressed carelessly and seemed down upon. Everything we see in the wonderful world of promiscuity is the fact that a man attempts to get a lady he likes to be able to have their method along with her, he then tosses her apart in order for they can search for another who's more stunning than her, and so forth; and then he moves from 1 prey to some other, one gf to a different. Hence no family members is created and no young ones are created; because of this no household is formed on a basis of comfort and tranquillity. All of that is refused in Islam which forbids it in a real way that renders no room for distinctions of viewpoint. Every Muslim whom goes against this is certainly after their whims and desires and it is imitating deviant and immoral individuals. Islam disavows their conduct and actions.
Centered on that, relationships that happen between women and men away from framework of legitimate, documented wedding are haraam (forbidden) relationships which it is really not permissible for a Muslim to form with any girl, whether this woman is Muslim or non-Muslim. We admire your telling this Muslim man whom is certainly going against their faith that he should look somewhere else if he is looking for sex. This verifies just what we have stated, that girl just isn't a product that is cheap. But we usually do not accept of the heading out with him and just what occurred between you to be alone together and kissing. If you believe that this really is one thing normal in your view, that isn't the full instance for all of us. Just what he has been doing are plain things which can be forbidden in Islam which is perhaps not suitable for a Muslim to complete them. If you want one another, then your only way for conferences between you to definitely be permissible is marriage and nothing else. Any conference or relationship with a female who's maybe not linked to the man occurring outside of the framework of wedding is haraam (forbidden) and is worthy of punishment into the Hereafter.
Pertaining to the Muslim manâ€™s household, they might accept their son marrying a woman that is christian has kiddies. Because it is something that is forbidden in Islam; rather it may be for cultural reasons, or perhaps because they think that their son is not able to fulfil the rights of that wife and take care of her children if they refuse, that is not. Nonetheless they cannot accept their son having a girlfriend with whom he spends time alone or travels together with her; then they are undoubtedly going against Islamic teachings if they accept that.